Getting vulnerable here…
Making peace has been a message that has been coming up for us.
Recently for our past with our business.
To our fellow entrepreneurs, you will understand that sometimes things don’t go as planned. Or you didn’t get the success from something you thought you would. Or simply you lost interest in talking about something & want to change directions with your biz.
We have experienced so many ups & downs with our biz & in our lives.
We personally have grown so much because of it.
Seriously running your own biz makes you face things…do the inner ugly work.
And we have.
Importance of making peace with the past to not affect your present…so you can manifest
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As we were going through the ups and downs, we kept asking God for guidance.
It is sometimes crazy to think we are talking about mindset, manifesting and intentional living as just a few years ago we didn’t know what all this was, but it as dramatically changed our lives.
2014 is when we first were opened up to the world of affirmations & wealth consciousness & all.
2016 is when we really got serious with doing the deep healing stuff.
Anyways want to share this because life really is a journey of twist & turns.
Frustrations. Wins. Moments you feel on fire. Follow by moments you want to cry screaming what the hell!
Making peace of our past with our biz is what we are focusing on. And celebrating it all!
If you haven’t heard we are considering creating an APP. As we were sharing this with our current clients’ THINGS came up.
All the negative self-talk just came pouring down hard.
It took us by surprise.
We knew that every time you up-leveled a new round of limiting beliefs would come up.
But this really shook us up…
Fears of judgment.
Doubts like who is really going to buy this.
Feelings of failure. A feeling of… see you can’t even make this work, here you are again trying something else.
Just how it was when we were overcoming our eating disorders & body image issues.
We have come a long way as we didn’t fight this. We honored these feelings. We cried. We prayed. We didn’t hide what was coming up as we know resistance is part of it.
Remember fit soul bosses feel what you need to feel. Face the resistance. Give yourself some time to process what you need to.
We are also still not questioning our past but celebrating & affirming everything happened & is happening the way it is supposed to.
We are putting our faith in God that we are on purpose still, this is just a shift, an expansion.
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If you have been doing the inner work and still haven’t seen some progress we ask you, are you still living in the past? Do you still have underlying beliefs that are keeping you there as you make decisions?
Are you still living in the past? Still questioning…thinking about things that have already happened?
Things to remember from this video
- We bring this up for awareness because that is key to changing as a lot of this is done subconsciously.
- You have to forgive and not wish the past was any different. What we learned from Oprah. Giving up the hope the past could be any different.
- You have to make peace with the past
- You have to accept it, learn from it and let it go
- You have to celebrate your past and where you are now
- More often than not we get what we need because that’s the next necessary step to become who we
need to become to be a match for what we truly want
We realized we were still living in the past subconsciously. Mostly around our biz and friendships.
We realized when we questioned the past and wondered why things didn’t go the way we wanted or haven’t happened yet…we were not trusting in God. We were still doubting and not affirming things are different.
Remember you are co-creating your life with God.
Trust that you need to be experiencing all that you are to get what you want.
So we ask you, are you truly staying present in your life with a vision of where you are going?
OR are you still looking, thinking, reflecting on the past?
We would love to hear your thoughts on this, leave us a comment below.
If you keep looking back, you are still in the energy of not enough and lack…that something is broken.
Can you see it as everything was on purpose and everything is still on purpose?
This has been the latest awareness for us on our spiritual journey.
Is it possible if we just stopped questioning our past, and come to accept it and of course learn from it, but see how much it helped us grow?
Is it possible if we can do that, then we can start to see change in our reality?
We think so.
We realized the more we kept analyzing and looking and talking about what happened, we were still living there…in the past and not actually letting go.
It was a habit we had. We didn’t realize we were doing it until recently as we said at the beginning we mentioned we wanted to create something BIG in our biz.
How to make peace with the past?
When you look back or hear about something from the past you have emotion attached to it.
Yes you did to do the inner work to heal and move forward…
but if you are still not moving forward – it is because you could still be living in the past without even realizing.
This is why you have to be conscious of what decisions you are making and from what energy and mindset.
Your brain wants you to focus on the bad things that happened, it wants you to see your mistakes. We learend this from Tom Bilyeu.
So look at your past, if you feel called, to heal it. But then move on.
Don’t keep looking back at it…keep working on it…keep reflecting on.
No, believe you healed it the first time, if of course you gave yourself time to heal.
It is up to you decide if you healed it or still question if you are not healed from the past.
You are allowed to stop feeling bad about the past.
You are allowed to forgive yourself and move on.
You are allowed to give yourself a break and stop being so hard on yourself.
When we are “healing” ourselves, we are taking a good look at the facts or truth of the experience, examining how it has changed us and helped us to grow, and finding a place of love and gratitude for this experience.
If you want to see how we got started improving our mindset and overall improving our relationship with ourselves, food and our bodies check out SOSL.
In this online course we share everything we came across that helped us shift our mindset and therefore learned to love ourselves and change our lives. It is more than just a food body love program, it’s a mindset self-love program to help you stop obsessing and start living the life you are meant to live!
It’s a daily practice to hold faith and keep going.
If you want to see what we do daily for our minds, bodies and souls, click here to see if we are the right coaches for you:
Sending you love and healing,
Lori and Michelle
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